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Friday, May 18, 2007

Final Farewell




I joined 100 people to say my final farewell to a much loved friend.

We drove along the quiet country lanes to the village church, passing the field near Lesley’s house, there standing guard in the sunshine was the white peacock.

To the sound of 30 choral voices, the perfume of spring flowers, the words of her much loved children we said our final farewell.

I left a small terracotta pot of my own flowers picked this morning with a card which read

There is a hole in my heart and my life where you lived.
Once a long time ago you held me tight until the pain went away,
I hope I held you tight until your pain went away.
It was a privilege to have had you in my life and to have been your friend.

Thank you all so very much for your prays, your thoughts, your friendship and your weeding, may all of those who left our world this week be surrounded by as much love as Lesley was.

Blossom

17 Comments:

  • At May 18, 2007 7:05 PM , Blogger The Country Craft Angel said...

    Tough day for you Blossom. What a lovely simple final gesture to your friend. She was lucky to have you in her life too.

    God bless and take care

    xx

     
  • At May 18, 2007 7:05 PM , Blogger ska said...

    beautiful flowers and beautiful words. time does heal, bless you
    S xx

     
  • At May 18, 2007 7:09 PM , Blogger countrymousie said...

    Oh Blossom - lovely heart felt words - you are/were a wonderful friend to her, and she to you - we are all thinking of you and were this afternoon - lots of gardens got sorted and my "Lesley lawn" looks a treat - love mousie

     
  • At May 18, 2007 7:10 PM , Blogger MaidofKent said...

    Well done Blossom, beautiful flowers and beautiful words. I'm sure that you did, and I'm sure she will have felt the same about you. It's good that somebody much loved, knows that they were. I wonder if she noticed all the weeding at 4pm, or if she has more interesting stuff to do now?
    I thanked her for being the reason that my garden looks better than it has for quite some time! ( I bet it can't recall two weeding sessions so close together before. ) xx

     
  • At May 18, 2007 7:27 PM , Blogger Suffolkmum said...

    Tears in my eyes Blossom. I'm sure she will have been tickled to see all these people she didn't know weeding with such vigour in her memory today.

     
  • At May 18, 2007 7:28 PM , Blogger PreseliMags said...

    What a beautiful tribute for a wonderful friend. Take care, Mags xxx

     
  • At May 18, 2007 7:30 PM , Blogger lixtroll said...

    Absolutely beautiful, Blossom. This love is the most important thing of all and you have shown us so much with your shining light X

     
  • At May 18, 2007 8:52 PM , Blogger Grouse said...

    You are wise enough to recognise what a privilage it is to go peacefully and surrounded by love, so I'm going to wish that for all of us and those we love.

     
  • At May 18, 2007 8:57 PM , Blogger Withy Brook said...

    One can't really beat that so I just say "here here" and luv Rho

     
  • At May 18, 2007 9:48 PM , Blogger Faith said...

    Thinking of you Blossom.

     
  • At May 18, 2007 9:49 PM , Blogger Inthemud said...

    Beautiful Flower tribute and such lovely words. So glad the White peacock was there as you went past.
    Warmest blessings Blossom, it's been a tough day, hope you sleep peacefully.
    X

     
  • At May 18, 2007 10:39 PM , Blogger CAMILLA said...

    Such a beautiful poem Blossom, and lovely flower tribute. I have weeded and planted some blue Geraniums in my garden this afternoon, thinking of you, hope you get good nights sleep.
    Camilla.x

     
  • At May 18, 2007 10:48 PM , Blogger @themill said...

    Lovely Blossom and hope you feel the warmth of Purplecoo wrapping it's arms around you.

     
  • At May 18, 2007 11:21 PM , Blogger elizabethm said...

    Was out there with the weed. all you can ask if that you love and are loved. sounds like Lesley did both.

     
  • At May 19, 2007 12:05 AM , Blogger Pondside said...

    What a beautiful tribute to your friendship. To me it sounds as though you were a blessing to one another.

     
  • At May 19, 2007 2:16 AM , Blogger Frances said...

    Amen

     
  • At May 19, 2007 8:01 AM , Blogger KittyB said...

    I have a lump in my throat reading your message and seeing your flowers. I'm pleased the white peacock was there, standing guard. Ditto Suffolkmum, I'm sure Lesley would have been amused to see us all on hands and knees pulling up weeds in her memory - and thinking of you too, sending our love.
    I did the nettles in the potato patch.

     

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